Thursday, November 4, 2010
Thursday, October 7, 2010
Quotes.
1。莎士比亚说: 再好的东西都有失去的一天。再深的记忆也有淡忘的一天。再爱的人，也有远走的一天。再美的梦也有苏醒的一天。该放弃的决不挽留。该珍惜的决不放手，分手后不可以做朋友，因为彼此伤害过！也不可以做敌人，因为彼此深爱过
2。 几米说: 当你喜欢我的时候，我不喜欢你,当你爱上我的时候，我喜欢上你, 当你离开我的时候，我却爱上你,是你走得太快，还是我跟不上你的脚步, 我们错过了诺亚方舟,错过了泰坦尼克号,错过了一切的惊险与不惊险,我们还要继续错过. 我不了解我的寂寞来自何方，但我真的感到寂寞。你也寂寞，世界上每个人都寂寞，只是大家的寂寞都不同吧。
3。刘心武说: 不要指望，麻雀会飞得很高。高处的天空，那是鹰的领地。麻雀如果摆正了自己的位置，它照样会过得很幸福！
4。亦舒说: 人们日常所犯最大的错误，是对陌生人太客气，而对亲密的人太苛刻，把这个坏习惯改过来，天下太平。
5。郭敬明说: 我终于发现自己看人的眼光太过简单,我从来没有去想面具下面是一张怎样的面容,我总是直接把面具当做面孔来对待,却忘记了笑脸面具下往往都是一张流着泪的脸..
6。刘心武说: 对不起是一种真诚，没关系是一种风度。如果你付出了真诚，却得不到风度，那只能说明对方的无知与粗俗！
7。韩寒说: 再累再苦就当自己是二百五再难再险就当自己是二皮脸
8。安妮宝贝说: 当一个女子在看天空的时候，她并不想寻找什么。她只是寂寞。
9。遇见平凡说: 缘分像一本书。翻的不经意会错过童话读得太认真又会流干眼泪。”
10。张小娴说: 爱，从来就是一件千回百转的事。不曾被离弃，不曾受伤害，怎懂得爱人？
11。亦舒说: 无论怎么样，一个人借故堕落总是不值得原谅的，越是没有人爱，越要爱自己。
12。刘心武说: 与其讨好别人，不如武装自己；与其逃避现实，不如笑对人生；与其听风听雨，不如昂首出击！
13。张爱玲说: 娶了红玫瑰，久而久之，红玫瑰就变成了墙上的一抹蚊子血，白玫瑰还是“床前明月光”；娶了白玫瑰，白玫瑰就是衣服上的一粒饭渣子，红的还是心口上的一颗朱砂痣。
14。三毛说: 一个朋友很好，两个朋友就多了一点，三个朋友就未免太多了。知音，能有一个已经很好了，不必太多，如果实在没有，还有自己，好好对待自己，跟自己相处，也是一个朋友…
15。雪小禅说: 我以为终有一天，我会彻底将爱情忘记，将你忘记，可是，忽然有一天，我听到了一首旧歌，我的眼泪就下来了，因为这首歌，我们一起听过。
16.郭敖说: 我们始终都在练习微笑，终于变成不敢哭的人。
17.三毛说: 不要害怕拒绝他人，如果自己的理由出于正当。当一个人开口提出要求的时候，他的心里根本预备好了两种答案。所以，给他任何一个其中的答案，都是意料中的。
18.梓色心晴说: 男人哭了，是因为他真的爱了~ 女人哭了，是因为她真得放弃了~ 。”
19。玄漪说: 能够说出的委屈，便不算委屈；能够抢走的爱人，便不算爱人。
20。张爱玲说: 爱情本来并不复杂，来来去去不过三个字，不是我爱你、我恨你，便是算了吧、你好吗、对不起。
21。马云说: 晚上想想千条路,早上醒来走原路.
22。饶雪漫说: 这个世界欺骗了我，我必须给与还击，我不会放掉任何一丁点儿属于我的幸福，哪怕付出的代价是从此坠入地狱，我也在所不惜。
23。郭敖说: 每个人一生之中心里总会藏着一个人，也许这个人永远都不会知道，尽管如此，这个人始终都无法被谁所替代。而那个人就像一个永远无法愈合的伤疤，无论在什么时候，只要被提起，或者轻轻的一碰，就会隐隐作痛。
24。GARVEN说: 话是人说的，屁也是人放的，说话和放屁一样，都是一口气而已。
25。三毛说: 某些人的爱情，只是一种“当时的情绪”。如果对方错将这份情绪当做长远的爱情，是本身的幼稚。
26。张小娴说: 如果没法忘记他，就不要忘记好了。真正的忘记，是不需要努力的。
27。人非草木说: 再丑的人也能结婚，再美的人也会单身！ 28。张爱玲说: 因为爱过，所以慈悲；因为懂得，所以宽容。
2。 几米说: 当你喜欢我的时候，我不喜欢你,当你爱上我的时候，我喜欢上你, 当你离开我的时候，我却爱上你,是你走得太快，还是我跟不上你的脚步, 我们错过了诺亚方舟,错过了泰坦尼克号,错过了一切的惊险与不惊险,我们还要继续错过. 我不了解我的寂寞来自何方，但我真的感到寂寞。你也寂寞，世界上每个人都寂寞，只是大家的寂寞都不同吧。
3。刘心武说: 不要指望，麻雀会飞得很高。高处的天空，那是鹰的领地。麻雀如果摆正了自己的位置，它照样会过得很幸福！
4。亦舒说: 人们日常所犯最大的错误，是对陌生人太客气，而对亲密的人太苛刻，把这个坏习惯改过来，天下太平。
5。郭敬明说: 我终于发现自己看人的眼光太过简单,我从来没有去想面具下面是一张怎样的面容,我总是直接把面具当做面孔来对待,却忘记了笑脸面具下往往都是一张流着泪的脸..
6。刘心武说: 对不起是一种真诚，没关系是一种风度。如果你付出了真诚，却得不到风度，那只能说明对方的无知与粗俗！
7。韩寒说: 再累再苦就当自己是二百五再难再险就当自己是二皮脸
8。安妮宝贝说: 当一个女子在看天空的时候，她并不想寻找什么。她只是寂寞。
9。遇见平凡说: 缘分像一本书。翻的不经意会错过童话读得太认真又会流干眼泪。”
10。张小娴说: 爱，从来就是一件千回百转的事。不曾被离弃，不曾受伤害，怎懂得爱人？
11。亦舒说: 无论怎么样，一个人借故堕落总是不值得原谅的，越是没有人爱，越要爱自己。
12。刘心武说: 与其讨好别人，不如武装自己；与其逃避现实，不如笑对人生；与其听风听雨，不如昂首出击！
13。张爱玲说: 娶了红玫瑰，久而久之，红玫瑰就变成了墙上的一抹蚊子血，白玫瑰还是“床前明月光”；娶了白玫瑰，白玫瑰就是衣服上的一粒饭渣子，红的还是心口上的一颗朱砂痣。
14。三毛说: 一个朋友很好，两个朋友就多了一点，三个朋友就未免太多了。知音，能有一个已经很好了，不必太多，如果实在没有，还有自己，好好对待自己，跟自己相处，也是一个朋友…
15。雪小禅说: 我以为终有一天，我会彻底将爱情忘记，将你忘记，可是，忽然有一天，我听到了一首旧歌，我的眼泪就下来了，因为这首歌，我们一起听过。
16.郭敖说: 我们始终都在练习微笑，终于变成不敢哭的人。
17.三毛说: 不要害怕拒绝他人，如果自己的理由出于正当。当一个人开口提出要求的时候，他的心里根本预备好了两种答案。所以，给他任何一个其中的答案，都是意料中的。
18.梓色心晴说: 男人哭了，是因为他真的爱了~ 女人哭了，是因为她真得放弃了~ 。”
19。玄漪说: 能够说出的委屈，便不算委屈；能够抢走的爱人，便不算爱人。
20。张爱玲说: 爱情本来并不复杂，来来去去不过三个字，不是我爱你、我恨你，便是算了吧、你好吗、对不起。
21。马云说: 晚上想想千条路,早上醒来走原路.
22。饶雪漫说: 这个世界欺骗了我，我必须给与还击，我不会放掉任何一丁点儿属于我的幸福，哪怕付出的代价是从此坠入地狱，我也在所不惜。
23。郭敖说: 每个人一生之中心里总会藏着一个人，也许这个人永远都不会知道，尽管如此，这个人始终都无法被谁所替代。而那个人就像一个永远无法愈合的伤疤，无论在什么时候，只要被提起，或者轻轻的一碰，就会隐隐作痛。
24。GARVEN说: 话是人说的，屁也是人放的，说话和放屁一样，都是一口气而已。
25。三毛说: 某些人的爱情，只是一种“当时的情绪”。如果对方错将这份情绪当做长远的爱情，是本身的幼稚。
26。张小娴说: 如果没法忘记他，就不要忘记好了。真正的忘记，是不需要努力的。
27。人非草木说: 再丑的人也能结婚，再美的人也会单身！ 28。张爱玲说: 因为爱过，所以慈悲；因为懂得，所以宽容。
Saturday, September 25, 2010
Missing pieces
Sometimes , a piece of cookie and a cup of hot chocolate may warm up our heart ...
sometimes it's that that reminds us of our broken heart.
with a missing piece that's sometime lost in the forgotten time,
just let the sand of time to worn the sharp edges of the broken pieces left in our heart,
it might get blunt, but afterall there's still a missing piece and it's incomplete.
By :Leo d Carrot Boy
sometimes it's that that reminds us of our broken heart.
with a missing piece that's sometime lost in the forgotten time,
just let the sand of time to worn the sharp edges of the broken pieces left in our heart,
it might get blunt, but afterall there's still a missing piece and it's incomplete.
By :Leo d Carrot Boy
Saturday, September 4, 2010
Memories
Memories are our way of keeping the past alive.
Some are so painful ,we never ever want to visit them again,
but a memory can also be a gif, something we can open again and again
in order to fill ourselves with happiness.
Sometimes a moment becomes a memory the instant it's happening.
because it is so true, so pure and so significant.
You'd want to capture it forever.
Some are so painful ,we never ever want to visit them again,
but a memory can also be a gif, something we can open again and again
in order to fill ourselves with happiness.
Sometimes a moment becomes a memory the instant it's happening.
because it is so true, so pure and so significant.
You'd want to capture it forever.
看这些故事.
第一课
一个男人在他妻子洗完澡后准备进浴室洗澡。这时，门铃响了。
妻子迅速用浴巾裹住自己冲到门口。
当她打开门时，邻居鲍勃站在那儿。
在她开口前，鲍勃说，“你如果把浴巾拿掉，我给你800美元。”
想了一会儿，这个女人拿掉浴巾赤裸地站在鲍勃面前。几秒钟后，鲍勃递给她800美元然后离开了。
女人重新裹好浴巾回到屋里。
当她踏进浴室时，丈夫问她，“是谁呀？”
“是邻居鲍勃。”她回答。
“哦，”丈夫说，“他有没有提到还欠我800美元？”
故事寓意：
及时与同舟共济的股东分享重要信息，将会避免不必要的曝光。
第二课
一个销售员、一个办事员和他们的经理步行去午餐时发现了一盏古代油灯。
他们摩擦油灯，一个精灵跳了出来。
精灵说：“我能满足你们每人一个愿望。”
“我先！我先！”办事员说，“我想去巴哈马群岛，开着快艇，与世隔绝。”
倏！她飞走了。
“该我了！该我了！”销售员说，“我想去夏威夷，躺在沙滩上，有私人女按摩师，免费续杯的冰镇果汁朗姆酒，还有一生中的最爱。”
倏！他飞走了。
“OK, 该你了。”精灵对经理说。
经理回答：“我要那两个蠢货午饭后马上回来工作！”
故事寓意：
永远让你的老板开口先。
第三课
一只鹰坐在高高的树上休息，无所事事。
一只小兔子看见鹰并且问它，“我能象你一样坐着什么都不干吗？”
鹰回答：“行啊，为啥不行。”
于是，兔子坐在鹰下面的地上休息。突然，一只狐狸出现了，它扑到兔子身上把它吃掉了。
故事寓意：
要想坐着无所事事，你必须坐在非常、非常高的位置。
第四课
一只小鸟飞去南方过冬。天实在太冷了。它冻僵了，掉在一片田野上。
它躺在那儿时，一头母牛走过来在它身上拉了一堆屎。
冻僵的小鸟躺在粪堆里，开始感觉到了温暖。
牛粪确实使它暖和过来了。
它躺在温暖的牛粪中，异常高兴，并开始唱起歌来。
一只过路的猫听到鸟叫赶过来看个究竟。
顺着声音，它发现了牛粪下的小鸟，并迅速把它拖出来吃掉了。
故事寓意：
(1) 并不是每个在你身上拉屎的都是你的敌人。
(2) 并不是每个把你拖出粪堆的都是你的朋友。
(3) 当你深陷粪堆中的时候，最好闭上你的鸟嘴
一个男人在他妻子洗完澡后准备进浴室洗澡。这时，门铃响了。
妻子迅速用浴巾裹住自己冲到门口。
当她打开门时，邻居鲍勃站在那儿。
在她开口前，鲍勃说，“你如果把浴巾拿掉，我给你800美元。”
想了一会儿，这个女人拿掉浴巾赤裸地站在鲍勃面前。几秒钟后，鲍勃递给她800美元然后离开了。
女人重新裹好浴巾回到屋里。
当她踏进浴室时，丈夫问她，“是谁呀？”
“是邻居鲍勃。”她回答。
“哦，”丈夫说，“他有没有提到还欠我800美元？”
故事寓意：
及时与同舟共济的股东分享重要信息，将会避免不必要的曝光。
第二课
一个销售员、一个办事员和他们的经理步行去午餐时发现了一盏古代油灯。
他们摩擦油灯，一个精灵跳了出来。
精灵说：“我能满足你们每人一个愿望。”
“我先！我先！”办事员说，“我想去巴哈马群岛，开着快艇，与世隔绝。”
倏！她飞走了。
“该我了！该我了！”销售员说，“我想去夏威夷，躺在沙滩上，有私人女按摩师，免费续杯的冰镇果汁朗姆酒，还有一生中的最爱。”
倏！他飞走了。
“OK, 该你了。”精灵对经理说。
经理回答：“我要那两个蠢货午饭后马上回来工作！”
故事寓意：
永远让你的老板开口先。
第三课
一只鹰坐在高高的树上休息，无所事事。
一只小兔子看见鹰并且问它，“我能象你一样坐着什么都不干吗？”
鹰回答：“行啊，为啥不行。”
于是，兔子坐在鹰下面的地上休息。突然，一只狐狸出现了，它扑到兔子身上把它吃掉了。
故事寓意：
要想坐着无所事事，你必须坐在非常、非常高的位置。
第四课
一只小鸟飞去南方过冬。天实在太冷了。它冻僵了，掉在一片田野上。
它躺在那儿时，一头母牛走过来在它身上拉了一堆屎。
冻僵的小鸟躺在粪堆里，开始感觉到了温暖。
牛粪确实使它暖和过来了。
它躺在温暖的牛粪中，异常高兴，并开始唱起歌来。
一只过路的猫听到鸟叫赶过来看个究竟。
顺着声音，它发现了牛粪下的小鸟，并迅速把它拖出来吃掉了。
故事寓意：
(1) 并不是每个在你身上拉屎的都是你的敌人。
(2) 并不是每个把你拖出粪堆的都是你的朋友。
(3) 当你深陷粪堆中的时候，最好闭上你的鸟嘴
Thursday, September 2, 2010
Journey
The road we travel is always unpredictable ,sometimes it's smooth,and sometime it's filled with bumps; but if we are lucky, we find people to travel with us.
Our journey is really a search, a yearning, for love and connection, and sometimes ..... It leads us back home.
Leo OtTo
Our journey is really a search, a yearning, for love and connection, and sometimes ..... It leads us back home.
Leo OtTo
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
Now and then .
The only thing that concern me the most right now is to loose the memory of
us and everyone i care about.The one that we are making right now of being together.
No one knows whats there tomorrow, but i know when finally it comes i'm not alone :)
People round us .
Finally drowned myself after trying to help everyone i know and care about. When i spent my time unable to be there for those who i cared about the most, yet everyone worked to help each other when i couldn't help them or myself.
There's a reason why people say we shouldn't expect too much .
No one wants to see someone they care about end up disappointed.
We instinctively act to protect our own from being hurt, and do what we can to make the right choices for the people we love,but the reason we have expectations in the first place, is because we wanna aim as high as we can, because when you love someone, there is no limit to what you can accomplish.
Leo
The problem was never that i'd taken on too much or caused myself stress, it was only that i didn't realised the simplest way to solve a problem, is to be sure you have someone there to help you.
There's a reason why people say we shouldn't expect too much .
No one wants to see someone they care about end up disappointed.
We instinctively act to protect our own from being hurt, and do what we can to make the right choices for the people we love,but the reason we have expectations in the first place, is because we wanna aim as high as we can, because when you love someone, there is no limit to what you can accomplish.
Leo
Time - wound
There's a saying where time heals everything .
Physically wound starts healing in moment its formed, and our bodies do all the work.
When a relationship injured, some wound heals in a day, others lay bare for the rest of our life.
Sometimes we only have to heal our self, and sometimes its our's to help others to get heal.
Leo
Physically wound starts healing in moment its formed, and our bodies do all the work.
When a relationship injured, some wound heals in a day, others lay bare for the rest of our life.
Sometimes we only have to heal our self, and sometimes its our's to help others to get heal.
Leo
Who we are .
Sometimes birthdays, new years aniversary is not about the day, the celebrations and the joy or gathering with friends nd family.
Its too about time for us to have a look back of who we are from what we planned and who we will be .
Its a chance to redifine yourself, to change expectations ,and to remember that its never too late to recapture who you were or to aim for who you want to be.
Leo
Its too about time for us to have a look back of who we are from what we planned and who we will be .
Its a chance to redifine yourself, to change expectations ,and to remember that its never too late to recapture who you were or to aim for who you want to be.
Leo
Sunday, August 29, 2010
August !!!!
Its already August!! and its just the third day of the month but yet so many had happen !! Moving, birthday partiesSSSSS!!! conflict @.@ , uni, studying, and lots more that can think of right now.
Well, the main point i'm going to be posting is about what can we do to make our life more interesting than just a daily routine that repeat pretty much over and over again ? Sometimes hanging out or walking around saying hi to people will just make you life much more different as it boost up potential for you to be doing things you dont know
Well, the main point i'm going to be posting is about what can we do to make our life more interesting than just a daily routine that repeat pretty much over and over again ? Sometimes hanging out or walking around saying hi to people will just make you life much more different as it boost up potential for you to be doing things you dont know
I see You In the Eye
People find it hard and afraid to approach me when it comes to making friends .
Most people get surprises when they see me in different place, with different people with different attitude.
Some people say i'm childish, some people say i'm crazy and weird. Some people think that i did lots of great things for a kid of my age, some people just think that i'm a weird guy with lots of crap .
I am use to deal with things at a different situation with different attitude, and it gave most of the people around me surprises as when it comes to a situation that they saw me doing something in a totally different way from what they know me, they get shock and they got confused ... ' Leo .. are you ok ?'
I'm ok, and congrats you just saw the other side of me .
In our daily life, we will encounter different people throughout the whole day. You cant expect me to talk to my parents, friends, classmates, housemates, maids, or employers/ employees or even enemies and those we hate in the same way right ?
I always try to be friendly most of the time, but in lots of different way .It's just disturbing sometimes that you've been too friendly and people lost the basic respect towards one and other. I avoid having a straight response to show that 'hey you need to show me some respect' , most of the time, i will just treat them in a different way and let them feel that i've change the way i'm treating them, well this is pretty much a very common when it comes to u know ... people stop being nice to one and other if they starts having issue towards one and other .
When i am dealing with people (everyone), i have different boundaries for each category they fall in and i have expectations from them too be be treating each other with the basic respect that should be in that category,i.e . You cant treat your boss the same way you treat you friend right ??
When you're in a best friend category, you ofcourse get different treatment from me compare to those people i've never met or those hi bye friends (no offense but this is what everyone do,and i believe so does you ) .If you are my lover, you would probably get a different side of me as well, but its a special one too. I'm strong to most category however if you are my family or lover and those who i really care about, please don't abuse it as you're all one of my most valuable assets and i am weak to these .
Sometimes ,things changes , crap happens or, for some reason, if i felt that you're not qualify or you just dont fit right in your current category, you will just get swop to some other place where i will find you best fit. You'll notice the changes, and dont get surprise, i am treating everyone equally by who they are to me. If i think you are worth it, (not by expecting anything in return or how much you worth, but how much value you show me your 'worthyness' ).
If i find you not worth my effort, then im jsut sorry to say plase dont expect so much from me as you din show much of expectations too.
Tell me what do you think about what i've just wrote and give comments of you'd like to share something from you to everyone here :)
Most people get surprises when they see me in different place, with different people with different attitude.
Some people say i'm childish, some people say i'm crazy and weird. Some people think that i did lots of great things for a kid of my age, some people just think that i'm a weird guy with lots of crap .
I am use to deal with things at a different situation with different attitude, and it gave most of the people around me surprises as when it comes to a situation that they saw me doing something in a totally different way from what they know me, they get shock and they got confused ... ' Leo .. are you ok ?'
I'm ok, and congrats you just saw the other side of me .
In our daily life, we will encounter different people throughout the whole day. You cant expect me to talk to my parents, friends, classmates, housemates, maids, or employers/ employees or even enemies and those we hate in the same way right ?
I always try to be friendly most of the time, but in lots of different way .It's just disturbing sometimes that you've been too friendly and people lost the basic respect towards one and other. I avoid having a straight response to show that 'hey you need to show me some respect' , most of the time, i will just treat them in a different way and let them feel that i've change the way i'm treating them, well this is pretty much a very common when it comes to u know ... people stop being nice to one and other if they starts having issue towards one and other .
When i am dealing with people (everyone), i have different boundaries for each category they fall in and i have expectations from them too be be treating each other with the basic respect that should be in that category,i.e . You cant treat your boss the same way you treat you friend right ??
When you're in a best friend category, you ofcourse get different treatment from me compare to those people i've never met or those hi bye friends (no offense but this is what everyone do,and i believe so does you ) .If you are my lover, you would probably get a different side of me as well, but its a special one too. I'm strong to most category however if you are my family or lover and those who i really care about, please don't abuse it as you're all one of my most valuable assets and i am weak to these .
Sometimes ,things changes , crap happens or, for some reason, if i felt that you're not qualify or you just dont fit right in your current category, you will just get swop to some other place where i will find you best fit. You'll notice the changes, and dont get surprise, i am treating everyone equally by who they are to me. If i think you are worth it, (not by expecting anything in return or how much you worth, but how much value you show me your 'worthyness' ).
If i find you not worth my effort, then im jsut sorry to say plase dont expect so much from me as you din show much of expectations too.
Tell me what do you think about what i've just wrote and give comments of you'd like to share something from you to everyone here :)
Give up what's important to oneself, just to be able to give others something they always wanted.
I thought we go with one and other if we didn't have date,
I'm not asking you to go because there's no one else,
I'm asking because you are the only one i want to go with .
Leo
I'm not asking you to go because there's no one else,
I'm asking because you are the only one i want to go with .
Leo
Hippocrates
Hippocrates, where peoplebehave the opposite way of how they were thought to, or even how they were said to be.
Some people who practice religious activity might just do it for the sake of they need to do it to show they belong to that religion(?)
Church on Sunday, Mosque on Friday , Sunday school, burning incense / joss stick, people praying for gods blessing but not do anything (about them self or even about others pain )
Some people might even say they feel sorry about certain things but would not even bother to take any action to reduce one's pain.
Ex : A family facing bankrupt from a church, people might pray for them, but instead too have another option rather than just praying ,ie giving .
Or some people jsut dont behave like how their religion taught them to be (?) loving, caring, selfless, .... ..... .... and so many more ! but the thing is they do practice their religion in their whole life especially things they need to practice to show that they are with the religion. (church, fasting, ....... )(?)
When people saying sorry about things they dont even mean it, it makes them a Hippocrates too.
Opps im sorry . the end . (?)
The true complete apologist consist of 3 most important part.
1)I'm sorry . - saying you're sorry .
2) It's my bad/ Its all my fault - admit the mistake or the guilt and being sincere .
3) How can i make it up / How can i make you feel better ? - being responsible had a chance to make it up/ undo what've been done, and making people feel better.
Unfortunately, most apologist out there just involve the first and sometimes second part of it.(?)
Back to hypocrite.
Some people are being hypocrites but doesn't mean that they are wrong at some point, infact they might be right.(?)
An alcoholic dad might give his children lectures about how bad is drink (?)
A drug taker might say drugs' bad .(?)
Well the conclusion for this term especially we are living with lots of hippos around us, and chances for us being one of them are .... well u know ..
Just live on, and think about what's life is about.
Task : see are there any hippos around you? and look in the mirror, are you a hippo too ?? i know i cant promise im not ;)
Some people who practice religious activity might just do it for the sake of they need to do it to show they belong to that religion(?)
Church on Sunday, Mosque on Friday , Sunday school, burning incense / joss stick, people praying for gods blessing but not do anything (about them self or even about others pain )
Some people might even say they feel sorry about certain things but would not even bother to take any action to reduce one's pain.
Ex : A family facing bankrupt from a church, people might pray for them, but instead too have another option rather than just praying ,ie giving .
Or some people jsut dont behave like how their religion taught them to be (?) loving, caring, selfless, .... ..... .... and so many more ! but the thing is they do practice their religion in their whole life especially things they need to practice to show that they are with the religion. (church, fasting, ....... )(?)
When people saying sorry about things they dont even mean it, it makes them a Hippocrates too.
Opps im sorry . the end . (?)
The true complete apologist consist of 3 most important part.
1)I'm sorry . - saying you're sorry .
2) It's my bad/ Its all my fault - admit the mistake or the guilt and being sincere .
3) How can i make it up / How can i make you feel better ? - being responsible had a chance to make it up/ undo what've been done, and making people feel better.
Unfortunately, most apologist out there just involve the first and sometimes second part of it.(?)
Back to hypocrite.
Some people are being hypocrites but doesn't mean that they are wrong at some point, infact they might be right.(?)
An alcoholic dad might give his children lectures about how bad is drink (?)
A drug taker might say drugs' bad .(?)
Well the conclusion for this term especially we are living with lots of hippos around us, and chances for us being one of them are .... well u know ..
Just live on, and think about what's life is about.
Task : see are there any hippos around you? and look in the mirror, are you a hippo too ?? i know i cant promise im not ;)
This is the world .
1 . 社会充满不公平现象。你先不要想去改造它，只能先适应它。（因为你管不了它）。
2 . 世界不会在意你的自尊，人们看的只是你的成就。在你没有成就以前，切勿过分强调自尊。（因为你越强调自尊，越对你不利）。
3 . 你只是中学毕业，通常不会成为CEO，直到你把CEO职位拿到手为止。（直到此时，人们才不会介意你只是中学毕业）。
4 . 当你陷入人为困境时，不要抱怨，你只能默默地吸取教训。（你要悄悄地振作起来，重新奋起）。
5 . 你要懂得：在没有你之前，你的父母并不像现在这样“乏味”。你应该想到，这是他们为了抚养你所付出的巨大代价。（你永远要感恩和孝敬他们，才是硬道理）。
6 . 在学校里，你考第几已不是那么重要，但进入社会却不然。不管你去到哪里，都要分等排名。（社会、公司要排名次，是常见的事，要鼓起勇气竞争才对）。
7 . 学校里有节假日，到公司打工则不然，你几乎不能休息，很少能轻松地过节假日。（否则你职业生涯中一起跑就落后了，甚至会让你永远落后）。
8 . 在学校，老师会帮助你学习，到公司却不会。如果你认为学校的老师要求你很严格，那是你还没有进入公司打工。因为，如果公司对你不严厉，你就要失业了。（你必须清醒地认识到：公司比学校更要严格要求自己）。
9 . 人们都喜欢看电视剧，但你不要看，那并不是你的生活。只要在公司工作，你是无暇看电视剧的。（奉劝你不要看，否则你走上看电视连续剧之路，而且看得津津有味，那你将失去成功的资格）。
10 . 永远不要在背后批评别人，尤其不能批评你的老板无知、刻薄和无能。（因为这样的心态，会使你走上坎坷艰难的成长之路）。
2 . 世界不会在意你的自尊，人们看的只是你的成就。在你没有成就以前，切勿过分强调自尊。（因为你越强调自尊，越对你不利）。
3 . 你只是中学毕业，通常不会成为CEO，直到你把CEO职位拿到手为止。（直到此时，人们才不会介意你只是中学毕业）。
4 . 当你陷入人为困境时，不要抱怨，你只能默默地吸取教训。（你要悄悄地振作起来，重新奋起）。
5 . 你要懂得：在没有你之前，你的父母并不像现在这样“乏味”。你应该想到，这是他们为了抚养你所付出的巨大代价。（你永远要感恩和孝敬他们，才是硬道理）。
6 . 在学校里，你考第几已不是那么重要，但进入社会却不然。不管你去到哪里，都要分等排名。（社会、公司要排名次，是常见的事，要鼓起勇气竞争才对）。
7 . 学校里有节假日，到公司打工则不然，你几乎不能休息，很少能轻松地过节假日。（否则你职业生涯中一起跑就落后了，甚至会让你永远落后）。
8 . 在学校，老师会帮助你学习，到公司却不会。如果你认为学校的老师要求你很严格，那是你还没有进入公司打工。因为，如果公司对你不严厉，你就要失业了。（你必须清醒地认识到：公司比学校更要严格要求自己）。
9 . 人们都喜欢看电视剧，但你不要看，那并不是你的生活。只要在公司工作，你是无暇看电视剧的。（奉劝你不要看，否则你走上看电视连续剧之路，而且看得津津有味，那你将失去成功的资格）。
10 . 永远不要在背后批评别人，尤其不能批评你的老板无知、刻薄和无能。（因为这样的心态，会使你走上坎坷艰难的成长之路）。
Remember !!
再烦，也别忘微笑；再急，也要注意语气；
再苦，也别忘坚持；再累，也要爱自己。
低调做人，你会一次比一次 稳健；高调做事，你会一次比一次优秀。
成功的时候不要忘记过去；失败的时候不要忘记还有未来。
有望得到的要努力，无望得到的不介意，则无论输赢姿态都会好看。
生活不是单行线，一条路走不通，你可以转弯。
泪水和汗水的化学成分相似，但前者只能为你换来同情，后者却可以为你赢的成功。
变老是人生的必修课，变成熟是选修课。
以锻炼为本，学会健康；以修进为本，学会求知；
以进德为本，学会做人；以适应为本，学会生存。
人生四项基本原则：懂得选择，学会放弃，耐得住寂寞，经得起诱惑。
当所有人都低调的时候，你可以高调，但不能跑调。
学会忘记是生活的技术，学会微笑是生活的艺术。
什么是好工作：一不影响生活作息，二不影响家庭团聚，三能养家糊口。
懒惰像生锈一样，比操劳更消耗身体。
让梦想成真的最好办法就是醒来。
哲人无忧，智者常乐。并不是因为所爱的一切他都拥有了，而是所拥有的一切他都爱。
人生有几件绝对不能失去的东西:自制的力量，冷静的头脑，希望和信心!
再苦，也别忘坚持；再累，也要爱自己。
低调做人，你会一次比一次 稳健；高调做事，你会一次比一次优秀。
成功的时候不要忘记过去；失败的时候不要忘记还有未来。
有望得到的要努力，无望得到的不介意，则无论输赢姿态都会好看。
生活不是单行线，一条路走不通，你可以转弯。
泪水和汗水的化学成分相似，但前者只能为你换来同情，后者却可以为你赢的成功。
变老是人生的必修课，变成熟是选修课。
以锻炼为本，学会健康；以修进为本，学会求知；
以进德为本，学会做人；以适应为本，学会生存。
人生四项基本原则：懂得选择，学会放弃，耐得住寂寞，经得起诱惑。
当所有人都低调的时候，你可以高调，但不能跑调。
学会忘记是生活的技术，学会微笑是生活的艺术。
什么是好工作：一不影响生活作息，二不影响家庭团聚，三能养家糊口。
懒惰像生锈一样，比操劳更消耗身体。
让梦想成真的最好办法就是醒来。
哲人无忧，智者常乐。并不是因为所爱的一切他都拥有了，而是所拥有的一切他都爱。
人生有几件绝对不能失去的东西:自制的力量，冷静的头脑，希望和信心!
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Word of Wisdom
''Learn to appreciate things around us. Especially to those that came to us easily, without the need of effort to gain or earn .
As they always say , easy come easy go .One moment it was there ,who knows where will it go in the next .''- Talb T.M
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
不要轻易说爱；不小心许下了承诺，就像是你欠下的债。
感情世界，伤害难免。相信很多人都是过来人。
想起当初，每日见面就是心肝与宝贝，与暧昧。
不知当初到底是有心，还是花心蜜语，
不过我真的很珍惜你对我说过的的每一句话，每一则短讯。
思念时重读着有你的聊天记录，回顾以往，
珍惜那刻为你停顿的时空。
微笑。应为你曾经经过我的人生，
而我也从中认识爱，和更加懂得珍惜与更爱 我自己和其他人。
有一丝丝的伤感，想起当初我们对彼此美丽的承诺；
与现实中的残酷比较，就像相片与胶片一样。
这或许是我们欠彼此＊造化。
x 心情复杂
的
左撇狮子
Tuesday, July 13, 2010
Positivity .
Our lives are not determined by what happens to us but by how we react to what happens, not by what life brings to us, but by the attitude we bring to life.
A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events, and outcomes. It is a catalyst, a spark that creates extraordinary results.
-L.L. Talb T.M.
Friday, July 9, 2010
——+Letting go《放下》~
'Picking up a task or a responsibility is not
as hard as letting it go.
Make sure you have what it takes to let go
before you decide to pick it up.As It always turn out to be harder than how you thought it would be.''- Talb T.M.
拿得起，就要放得下；
放不下，就别拿起。
拿着不放，最后累了被压死的还是你自己。
Thursday, July 8, 2010
How do we handle farewells .如何看待离别。
如 果分离是人生的必经之路..
那么我们是不是应该学会坦然面对??
如果有缘起..必有缘灭.
我依然不会逃避..
或许我还 无法坦然..
但，我不会忘记那个缘起.
Its not easy for us as human being to be apart from someone we use to hang out with, someone closer to us or even our lover ,but separations and farewells are unavoidable and its a part of life. Sometimes people move forward for a greater purpose and sacrifice were made, and sometimes we lost people just because its the end of their time.
Personally, like everyone else, we have to accept the facts of people leaving us for different reasons, but its easier to remember someone and keep them in our heart then forget about them and forced our self to move forward. Acceptance played an important role in this, and farewell are easier if we are able to accept whats going on, instead of struggling and seeking for answers that had never exist.Its going to make every thing alot harder if we are unable to convinced ourself to accept and this happens most of the time.
Sometimes we have our reason to refuse to accept certain facts, but ultimately we just need time at that stage to help us stand up to the fact and face it, some people i know, take forever to accept, and some people i know take it easy,and those are the happy people rather than being miserable .
Its not their fault if they are miserable to what had happened to them. It might be the case that its too much for them to deal with it alone, and they just need to have someone else to hold their hands and walk through the journey.
Isn't it just better to choose to write a beautiful ending rather than just make our self miserable and pretend it doesn't exist at all ??
Tell me what you think by writing in the comments if you would like to share with everyone the way you see this world.
Cheers.
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想念或许只属于某一个人，不过如果两个人都在想念彼此。。。那也不一定是一对幸福的恋人。
距离最遥远的心，不别落在于天南与地北，而是情侣背靠背却没法理解对方的心。
距离最远的情侣，不是各别千里。而是所爱的人明明就站在你面前，却应为不懂珍惜与看开，当作视而不见。
Monday, July 5, 2010
Found my blog .. suprised that i even made one 2 YEARS AGO!!!
Argh , i found my blog !! wohoo .cheers !!
Didn't even realized i have one = =''
Well, like it was written , the only thing that drive me on my blog is boredom @@!!!
Maybe i will start posting soon .. It had been 2 years and i seriously couldn't remember the previous and the ONLY 2 posts i've got.
How sad is that !.only post in my going to be 20 years of life XS
OK so this time hopefully i will not forgot about my blog and will be starting to post stuff here ..
Its soo freakin weird, people are like .. Who cares if you even blog !!?? GO geet a Life !!
Well its ok . because Im not much a blogger ,BUT I DO CARE HOW MUCH I BLOGS!! afterall its all about sharing and writing story like lifestyle we had in this cruel and sad world .
Well we cant deny that how different things are described compared to the reality in certain blogs, well folks ,those are blogs that not worth reading or even posting!! its a waste of time but there are people out there that just couldn't wake up and living a self imagined life that just have the space between their finger and the keys on the keyboard XP.
Well it might sounds harsh up there, but to me, there are lots of blogs that worth reading as people do share real things in their blog and that ! my friend , is a blog worth our time reading and learning .
This is how i think about blog sofar ,it might be wrong or i might be convinced its actually like that well afterall im not even 20 ,still a freshman afterall to this world.
To You who read this you had just been Leo-ed , and you are always welcome to read at my blog.
Didn't even realized i have one = =''
Well, like it was written , the only thing that drive me on my blog is boredom @@!!!
Maybe i will start posting soon .. It had been 2 years and i seriously couldn't remember the previous and the ONLY 2 posts i've got.
How sad is that !.only post in my going to be 20 years of life XS
OK so this time hopefully i will not forgot about my blog and will be starting to post stuff here ..
Its soo freakin weird, people are like .. Who cares if you even blog !!?? GO geet a Life !!
Well its ok . because Im not much a blogger ,BUT I DO CARE HOW MUCH I BLOGS!! afterall its all about sharing and writing story like lifestyle we had in this cruel and sad world .
Well we cant deny that how different things are described compared to the reality in certain blogs, well folks ,those are blogs that not worth reading or even posting!! its a waste of time but there are people out there that just couldn't wake up and living a self imagined life that just have the space between their finger and the keys on the keyboard XP.
Well it might sounds harsh up there, but to me, there are lots of blogs that worth reading as people do share real things in their blog and that ! my friend , is a blog worth our time reading and learning .
This is how i think about blog sofar ,it might be wrong or i might be convinced its actually like that well afterall im not even 20 ,still a freshman afterall to this world.
To You who read this you had just been Leo-ed , and you are always welcome to read at my blog.
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