How do we handle farewells .如何看待离别。

如 果分离是人生的必经之路..

那么我们是不是应该学会坦然面对??

如果有缘起..必有缘灭.

我依然不会逃避..

或许我还 无法坦然..

但，我不会忘记那个缘起.

Its not easy for us as human being to be apart from someone we use to hang out with, someone closer to us or even our lover ,but separations and farewells are unavoidable and its a part of life. Sometimes people move forward for a greater purpose and sacrifice were made, and sometimes we lost people just because its the end of their time.

Personally, like everyone else, we have to accept the facts of people leaving us for different reasons, but its easier to remember someone and keep them in our heart then forget about them and forced our self to move forward. Acceptance played an important role in this, and farewell are easier if we are able to accept whats going on, instead of struggling and seeking for answers that had never exist.Its going to make every thing alot harder if we are unable to convinced ourself to accept and this happens most of the time.

Sometimes we have our reason to refuse to accept certain facts, but ultimately we just need time at that stage to help us stand up to the fact and face it, some people i know, take forever to accept, and some people i know take it easy,and those are the happy people rather than being miserable .
Its not their fault if they are miserable to what had happened to them. It might be the case that its too much for them to deal with it alone, and they just need to have someone else to hold their hands and walk through the journey.

Isn't it just better to choose to write a beautiful ending rather than just make our self miserable and pretend it doesn't exist at all ??

Tell me what you think by writing in the comments if you would like to share with everyone the way you see this world.

Cheers.

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想念或许只属于某一个人，不过如果两个人都在想念彼此。。。那也不一定是一对幸福的恋人。 

距离最遥远的心，不别落在于天南与地北，而是情侣背靠背却没法理解对方的心。
距离最远的情侣，不是各别千里。而是所爱的人明明就站在你面前，却应为不懂珍惜与看开，当作视而不见。