Its already August!! and its just the third day of the month but yet so many had happen !! Moving, birthday partiesSSSSS!!! conflict @.@ , uni, studying, and lots more that can think of right now.
Well, the main point i'm going to be posting is about what can we do to make our life more interesting than just a daily routine that repeat pretty much over and over again ? Sometimes hanging out or walking around saying hi to people will just make you life much more different as it boost up potential for you to be doing things you dont know
Sunday, August 29, 2010
I see You In the Eye
People find it hard and afraid to approach me when it comes to making friends .
Most people get surprises when they see me in different place, with different people with different attitude.
Some people say i'm childish, some people say i'm crazy and weird. Some people think that i did lots of great things for a kid of my age, some people just think that i'm a weird guy with lots of crap .
I am use to deal with things at a different situation with different attitude, and it gave most of the people around me surprises as when it comes to a situation that they saw me doing something in a totally different way from what they know me, they get shock and they got confused ... ' Leo .. are you ok ?'
I'm ok, and congrats you just saw the other side of me .
In our daily life, we will encounter different people throughout the whole day. You cant expect me to talk to my parents, friends, classmates, housemates, maids, or employers/ employees or even enemies and those we hate in the same way right ?
I always try to be friendly most of the time, but in lots of different way .It's just disturbing sometimes that you've been too friendly and people lost the basic respect towards one and other. I avoid having a straight response to show that 'hey you need to show me some respect' , most of the time, i will just treat them in a different way and let them feel that i've change the way i'm treating them, well this is pretty much a very common when it comes to u know ... people stop being nice to one and other if they starts having issue towards one and other .
When i am dealing with people (everyone), i have different boundaries for each category they fall in and i have expectations from them too be be treating each other with the basic respect that should be in that category,i.e . You cant treat your boss the same way you treat you friend right ??
When you're in a best friend category, you ofcourse get different treatment from me compare to those people i've never met or those hi bye friends (no offense but this is what everyone do,and i believe so does you ) .If you are my lover, you would probably get a different side of me as well, but its a special one too. I'm strong to most category however if you are my family or lover and those who i really care about, please don't abuse it as you're all one of my most valuable assets and i am weak to these .
Sometimes ,things changes , crap happens or, for some reason, if i felt that you're not qualify or you just dont fit right in your current category, you will just get swop to some other place where i will find you best fit. You'll notice the changes, and dont get surprise, i am treating everyone equally by who they are to me. If i think you are worth it, (not by expecting anything in return or how much you worth, but how much value you show me your 'worthyness' ).
If i find you not worth my effort, then im jsut sorry to say plase dont expect so much from me as you din show much of expectations too.
Tell me what do you think about what i've just wrote and give comments of you'd like to share something from you to everyone here :)
Most people get surprises when they see me in different place, with different people with different attitude.
Some people say i'm childish, some people say i'm crazy and weird. Some people think that i did lots of great things for a kid of my age, some people just think that i'm a weird guy with lots of crap .
I am use to deal with things at a different situation with different attitude, and it gave most of the people around me surprises as when it comes to a situation that they saw me doing something in a totally different way from what they know me, they get shock and they got confused ... ' Leo .. are you ok ?'
I'm ok, and congrats you just saw the other side of me .
In our daily life, we will encounter different people throughout the whole day. You cant expect me to talk to my parents, friends, classmates, housemates, maids, or employers/ employees or even enemies and those we hate in the same way right ?
I always try to be friendly most of the time, but in lots of different way .It's just disturbing sometimes that you've been too friendly and people lost the basic respect towards one and other. I avoid having a straight response to show that 'hey you need to show me some respect' , most of the time, i will just treat them in a different way and let them feel that i've change the way i'm treating them, well this is pretty much a very common when it comes to u know ... people stop being nice to one and other if they starts having issue towards one and other .
When i am dealing with people (everyone), i have different boundaries for each category they fall in and i have expectations from them too be be treating each other with the basic respect that should be in that category,i.e . You cant treat your boss the same way you treat you friend right ??
When you're in a best friend category, you ofcourse get different treatment from me compare to those people i've never met or those hi bye friends (no offense but this is what everyone do,and i believe so does you ) .If you are my lover, you would probably get a different side of me as well, but its a special one too. I'm strong to most category however if you are my family or lover and those who i really care about, please don't abuse it as you're all one of my most valuable assets and i am weak to these .
Sometimes ,things changes , crap happens or, for some reason, if i felt that you're not qualify or you just dont fit right in your current category, you will just get swop to some other place where i will find you best fit. You'll notice the changes, and dont get surprise, i am treating everyone equally by who they are to me. If i think you are worth it, (not by expecting anything in return or how much you worth, but how much value you show me your 'worthyness' ).
If i find you not worth my effort, then im jsut sorry to say plase dont expect so much from me as you din show much of expectations too.
Tell me what do you think about what i've just wrote and give comments of you'd like to share something from you to everyone here :)
Give up what's important to oneself, just to be able to give others something they always wanted.
I thought we go with one and other if we didn't have date,
I'm not asking you to go because there's no one else,
I'm asking because you are the only one i want to go with .
Leo
I'm not asking you to go because there's no one else,
I'm asking because you are the only one i want to go with .
Leo
Hippocrates
Hippocrates, where peoplebehave the opposite way of how they were thought to, or even how they were said to be.
Some people who practice religious activity might just do it for the sake of they need to do it to show they belong to that religion(?)
Church on Sunday, Mosque on Friday , Sunday school, burning incense / joss stick, people praying for gods blessing but not do anything (about them self or even about others pain )
Some people might even say they feel sorry about certain things but would not even bother to take any action to reduce one's pain.
Ex : A family facing bankrupt from a church, people might pray for them, but instead too have another option rather than just praying ,ie giving .
Or some people jsut dont behave like how their religion taught them to be (?) loving, caring, selfless, .... ..... .... and so many more ! but the thing is they do practice their religion in their whole life especially things they need to practice to show that they are with the religion. (church, fasting, ....... )(?)
When people saying sorry about things they dont even mean it, it makes them a Hippocrates too.
Opps im sorry . the end . (?)
The true complete apologist consist of 3 most important part.
1)I'm sorry . - saying you're sorry .
2) It's my bad/ Its all my fault - admit the mistake or the guilt and being sincere .
3) How can i make it up / How can i make you feel better ? - being responsible had a chance to make it up/ undo what've been done, and making people feel better.
Unfortunately, most apologist out there just involve the first and sometimes second part of it.(?)
Back to hypocrite.
Some people are being hypocrites but doesn't mean that they are wrong at some point, infact they might be right.(?)
An alcoholic dad might give his children lectures about how bad is drink (?)
A drug taker might say drugs' bad .(?)
Well the conclusion for this term especially we are living with lots of hippos around us, and chances for us being one of them are .... well u know ..
Just live on, and think about what's life is about.
Task : see are there any hippos around you? and look in the mirror, are you a hippo too ?? i know i cant promise im not ;)
Some people who practice religious activity might just do it for the sake of they need to do it to show they belong to that religion(?)
Church on Sunday, Mosque on Friday , Sunday school, burning incense / joss stick, people praying for gods blessing but not do anything (about them self or even about others pain )
Some people might even say they feel sorry about certain things but would not even bother to take any action to reduce one's pain.
Ex : A family facing bankrupt from a church, people might pray for them, but instead too have another option rather than just praying ,ie giving .
Or some people jsut dont behave like how their religion taught them to be (?) loving, caring, selfless, .... ..... .... and so many more ! but the thing is they do practice their religion in their whole life especially things they need to practice to show that they are with the religion. (church, fasting, ....... )(?)
When people saying sorry about things they dont even mean it, it makes them a Hippocrates too.
Opps im sorry . the end . (?)
The true complete apologist consist of 3 most important part.
1)I'm sorry . - saying you're sorry .
2) It's my bad/ Its all my fault - admit the mistake or the guilt and being sincere .
3) How can i make it up / How can i make you feel better ? - being responsible had a chance to make it up/ undo what've been done, and making people feel better.
Unfortunately, most apologist out there just involve the first and sometimes second part of it.(?)
Back to hypocrite.
Some people are being hypocrites but doesn't mean that they are wrong at some point, infact they might be right.(?)
An alcoholic dad might give his children lectures about how bad is drink (?)
A drug taker might say drugs' bad .(?)
Well the conclusion for this term especially we are living with lots of hippos around us, and chances for us being one of them are .... well u know ..
Just live on, and think about what's life is about.
Task : see are there any hippos around you? and look in the mirror, are you a hippo too ?? i know i cant promise im not ;)
This is the world .
1 . 社会充满不公平现象。你先不要想去改造它，只能先适应它。（因为你管不了它）。
2 . 世界不会在意你的自尊，人们看的只是你的成就。在你没有成就以前，切勿过分强调自尊。（因为你越强调自尊，越对你不利）。
3 . 你只是中学毕业，通常不会成为CEO，直到你把CEO职位拿到手为止。（直到此时，人们才不会介意你只是中学毕业）。
4 . 当你陷入人为困境时，不要抱怨，你只能默默地吸取教训。（你要悄悄地振作起来，重新奋起）。
5 . 你要懂得：在没有你之前，你的父母并不像现在这样“乏味”。你应该想到，这是他们为了抚养你所付出的巨大代价。（你永远要感恩和孝敬他们，才是硬道理）。
6 . 在学校里，你考第几已不是那么重要，但进入社会却不然。不管你去到哪里，都要分等排名。（社会、公司要排名次，是常见的事，要鼓起勇气竞争才对）。
7 . 学校里有节假日，到公司打工则不然，你几乎不能休息，很少能轻松地过节假日。（否则你职业生涯中一起跑就落后了，甚至会让你永远落后）。
8 . 在学校，老师会帮助你学习，到公司却不会。如果你认为学校的老师要求你很严格，那是你还没有进入公司打工。因为，如果公司对你不严厉，你就要失业了。（你必须清醒地认识到：公司比学校更要严格要求自己）。
9 . 人们都喜欢看电视剧，但你不要看，那并不是你的生活。只要在公司工作，你是无暇看电视剧的。（奉劝你不要看，否则你走上看电视连续剧之路，而且看得津津有味，那你将失去成功的资格）。
10 . 永远不要在背后批评别人，尤其不能批评你的老板无知、刻薄和无能。（因为这样的心态，会使你走上坎坷艰难的成长之路）。
2 . 世界不会在意你的自尊，人们看的只是你的成就。在你没有成就以前，切勿过分强调自尊。（因为你越强调自尊，越对你不利）。
3 . 你只是中学毕业，通常不会成为CEO，直到你把CEO职位拿到手为止。（直到此时，人们才不会介意你只是中学毕业）。
4 . 当你陷入人为困境时，不要抱怨，你只能默默地吸取教训。（你要悄悄地振作起来，重新奋起）。
5 . 你要懂得：在没有你之前，你的父母并不像现在这样“乏味”。你应该想到，这是他们为了抚养你所付出的巨大代价。（你永远要感恩和孝敬他们，才是硬道理）。
6 . 在学校里，你考第几已不是那么重要，但进入社会却不然。不管你去到哪里，都要分等排名。（社会、公司要排名次，是常见的事，要鼓起勇气竞争才对）。
7 . 学校里有节假日，到公司打工则不然，你几乎不能休息，很少能轻松地过节假日。（否则你职业生涯中一起跑就落后了，甚至会让你永远落后）。
8 . 在学校，老师会帮助你学习，到公司却不会。如果你认为学校的老师要求你很严格，那是你还没有进入公司打工。因为，如果公司对你不严厉，你就要失业了。（你必须清醒地认识到：公司比学校更要严格要求自己）。
9 . 人们都喜欢看电视剧，但你不要看，那并不是你的生活。只要在公司工作，你是无暇看电视剧的。（奉劝你不要看，否则你走上看电视连续剧之路，而且看得津津有味，那你将失去成功的资格）。
10 . 永远不要在背后批评别人，尤其不能批评你的老板无知、刻薄和无能。（因为这样的心态，会使你走上坎坷艰难的成长之路）。
Remember !!
再烦，也别忘微笑；再急，也要注意语气；
再苦，也别忘坚持；再累，也要爱自己。
低调做人，你会一次比一次 稳健；高调做事，你会一次比一次优秀。
成功的时候不要忘记过去；失败的时候不要忘记还有未来。
有望得到的要努力，无望得到的不介意，则无论输赢姿态都会好看。
生活不是单行线，一条路走不通，你可以转弯。
泪水和汗水的化学成分相似，但前者只能为你换来同情，后者却可以为你赢的成功。
变老是人生的必修课，变成熟是选修课。
以锻炼为本，学会健康；以修进为本，学会求知；
以进德为本，学会做人；以适应为本，学会生存。
人生四项基本原则：懂得选择，学会放弃，耐得住寂寞，经得起诱惑。
当所有人都低调的时候，你可以高调，但不能跑调。
学会忘记是生活的技术，学会微笑是生活的艺术。
什么是好工作：一不影响生活作息，二不影响家庭团聚，三能养家糊口。
懒惰像生锈一样，比操劳更消耗身体。
让梦想成真的最好办法就是醒来。
哲人无忧，智者常乐。并不是因为所爱的一切他都拥有了，而是所拥有的一切他都爱。
人生有几件绝对不能失去的东西:自制的力量，冷静的头脑，希望和信心!
再苦，也别忘坚持；再累，也要爱自己。
低调做人，你会一次比一次 稳健；高调做事，你会一次比一次优秀。
成功的时候不要忘记过去；失败的时候不要忘记还有未来。
有望得到的要努力，无望得到的不介意，则无论输赢姿态都会好看。
生活不是单行线，一条路走不通，你可以转弯。
泪水和汗水的化学成分相似，但前者只能为你换来同情，后者却可以为你赢的成功。
变老是人生的必修课，变成熟是选修课。
以锻炼为本，学会健康；以修进为本，学会求知；
以进德为本，学会做人；以适应为本，学会生存。
人生四项基本原则：懂得选择，学会放弃，耐得住寂寞，经得起诱惑。
当所有人都低调的时候，你可以高调，但不能跑调。
学会忘记是生活的技术，学会微笑是生活的艺术。
什么是好工作：一不影响生活作息，二不影响家庭团聚，三能养家糊口。
懒惰像生锈一样，比操劳更消耗身体。
让梦想成真的最好办法就是醒来。
哲人无忧，智者常乐。并不是因为所爱的一切他都拥有了，而是所拥有的一切他都爱。
人生有几件绝对不能失去的东西:自制的力量，冷静的头脑，希望和信心!
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Word of Wisdom
''Learn to appreciate things around us. Especially to those that came to us easily, without the need of effort to gain or earn .
As they always say , easy come easy go .One moment it was there ,who knows where will it go in the next .''- Talb T.M
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