People find it hard and afraid to approach me when it comes to making friends .
Most people get surprises when they see me in different place, with different people with different attitude.
Some people say i'm childish, some people say i'm crazy and weird. Some people think that i did lots of great things for a kid of my age, some people just think that i'm a weird guy with lots of crap .
I am use to deal with things at a different situation with different attitude, and it gave most of the people around me surprises as when it comes to a situation that they saw me doing something in a totally different way from what they know me, they get shock and they got confused ... ' Leo .. are you ok ?'
I'm ok, and congrats you just saw the other side of me .
In our daily life, we will encounter different people throughout the whole day. You cant expect me to talk to my parents, friends, classmates, housemates, maids, or employers/ employees or even enemies and those we hate in the same way right ?
I always try to be friendly most of the time, but in lots of different way .It's just disturbing sometimes that you've been too friendly and people lost the basic respect towards one and other. I avoid having a straight response to show that 'hey you need to show me some respect' , most of the time, i will just treat them in a different way and let them feel that i've change the way i'm treating them, well this is pretty much a very common when it comes to u know ... people stop being nice to one and other if they starts having issue towards one and other .
When i am dealing with people (everyone), i have different boundaries for each category they fall in and i have expectations from them too be be treating each other with the basic respect that should be in that category,i.e . You cant treat your boss the same way you treat you friend right ??
When you're in a best friend category, you ofcourse get different treatment from me compare to those people i've never met or those hi bye friends (no offense but this is what everyone do,and i believe so does you ) .If you are my lover, you would probably get a different side of me as well, but its a special one too. I'm strong to most category however if you are my family or lover and those who i really care about, please don't abuse it as you're all one of my most valuable assets and i am weak to these .
Sometimes ,things changes , crap happens or, for some reason, if i felt that you're not qualify or you just dont fit right in your current category, you will just get swop to some other place where i will find you best fit. You'll notice the changes, and dont get surprise, i am treating everyone equally by who they are to me. If i think you are worth it, (not by expecting anything in return or how much you worth, but how much value you show me your 'worthyness' ).
If i find you not worth my effort, then im jsut sorry to say plase dont expect so much from me as you din show much of expectations too.
Tell me what do you think about what i've just wrote and give comments of you'd like to share something from you to everyone here :)
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